The Road is Blocked—What Now?
There have been multiple times during our travels in México that we were
lost and didn’t know where to go. We always knew what town we were in, just not
what road to turn down to get to our destination. While driving a 32-foot
motorhome in small towns or big cities, turning down an unknown narrow road is almost
always a mistake. Getting to a dead end and needing to turn around can
sometimes be impossible. The GPS is not helpful at all when the friendly female
voice repeatedly tells us to turn at the next corner, but when we look first
before turning and find a narrow lane with no traffic visible, we finally mute
it and pull to the side of the road to decide what to do. That’s when we find a
friendly Mexican to help us out before we get into a mess like we did in
downtown San Miguel de Allende, with the police involved. (You can read about
that adventure in my eBook Healthy Living and Traveling in Mexico available on Amazon)
Inviting a Mexican
into Our Motorhome to Guide Us
Only a few miles from our
destination for the day, Huatabampito, Sonora, we entered the small town of La
Unión. The GPS told us to continue straight ahead through town, but didn’t account
for a huge pile of rubble in the middle of the road where ditches had been dug
across for new utilities. A Desviación
(detour) sign diverted us into a neighborhood, but no other signs clued us
about getting back on the main road to El
Mirador RV Park at the beach. The GPS continued to tell us to turn right
down dirt roads that didn’t look passable with our Class A motorhome. Each one
was a narrow one-lane dirt road, lined with large trees on each side, and
parked down each side with trucks and cars. So, we continued driving through
the neighborhood, following the school bus, thinking the bus driver would lead
us out of this mess. Then the bus reached the end of the road, did a
three-point turn and headed back the way it had come, toward us. We let it pass
and then did our own turn-around using the driveway of two homes.
By then, a large crowd of adults
and children had gathered to watch us, wondering what this big brown coach with
gringos inside was during in their barrio.
They were all smiling and looked friendly so I hopped out of the motorhome to
guide Jon while he backed it up, making sure to miss any dogs, children, and
fences. A young man, dressed in dirty work clothes came up to me and started
speaking in rapid Spanish. I said one of the few sentences I know, “No hablo Español.” He turned to the
crowd and told them I didn’t speak Spanish. There was a lot of good-natured chuckling
and chatter about the gringa that didn’t speak Spanish. I waved for him to come
to the driver’s window so Jon could talk to him.
After a brief conversation in
Spanish between Jon and the young man, Jon told me the man wanted to show us
how to get through town, avoiding the road construction. I asked how much he wanted to charge us (I know how to say that in Spanish, at least). The young man said,
“libre” (free). He just wanted to
help. So, I said okay and waved him around to the door of the RV. Bella was
barking, not liking a stranger to come into our casa rodante (literally means mobile home). The young man said
something about the perro and seemed
afraid of Bella, so I picked her up, sat on the couch behind the driver’s seat,
and waved for him to sit in the RV passenger seat, up front with Jon. He
chattered away to Jon the whole time he was directing us through turns that
took us back toward town and neatly around the construction. We stopped at the
Pemex gas station on the outskirts of town where he pointed down the road to la playa (the beach), the direction we should head.
Jon and I decided to pay him 100 pesos (about $5 US) for his time and trouble,
knowing he would have to walk the mile or so back to his home. We thanked him
and he hopped out of the motorhome with a smile on his face. I think he would
have been just as happy to help us for free, he seemed to enjoy the adventure
so much. But it was well worth the money for the assistance he gave us, and we
feel giving a small payment is the least we can do to help those who are less
well-off than we are.
Relieved to make it out of the maze
of roads in La Unión, we continued on the two-lane highway toward Huatabampito.
The GPS seemed happy, as well, that we were finally on the correct road to the
beach. El Mirador Hotel Restaurante y RV
Park came into view as the GPS announced, “You have arrived at your
destination.” We couldn’t wait to park next to the seawall, hook up utilities,
and head to the restaurant for a fresh fish dinner and Margaritas.
On a previous trip, we were heading
north, approaching the Nogales, México border crossing to find that
construction had closed the bus and RV lane. A detour sign directed us off of Mex
Hwy 15D and into the busy city of Nogales. We drove for several miles, the GPS continually
ordering us to make a legal U-turn and return the way we had come. We muted her
voice, knowing she wasn’t correct, but having no idea where to go. There didn’t
see any more detour signs telling us where RV were supposed to go to cross into
the U.S.
As the traffic became heavier and
the lanes narrower, we knew we had missed a critical turn and needed help. We
stopped at a red traffic light in a busy downtown area, vendors circulating
between cars selling drinks, snacks, newspapers, and trinkets. Several vendors noticed
us and started waving for us to go back. We looked at each other and said,
“What do we do now?”
One of the newspaper vendors came
to the driver’s window and Jon opened it to see what he had to say. The Mexican
man told Jon that we had to go to the bus crossing in another part of town and
he could show us how to get there. Jon asked him, “How much?” The Mexican said
to pay whatever we thought was fair. Jon agreed and opened the motorhome door
for him to climb in. He sat on the couch behind Jon and gave him directions
through busy downtown Nogales. Several miles and turns later we arrived at the
temporary crossing for buses and RVs. We thanked him profusely and paid him
several hundred pesos (about $15 US), knowing he had to take buses or walk a
long distance back to where we started that nerve-wracking journey. We were so
grateful to have found a friendly man who could show us the way for a small
fee. We would have never found the detour without someone’s help.
Hire a Taxi to Lead Us
On more than one occasion, we have
been in a new city, trying to find the RV Park and the GPS had led us astray.
When the streets started narrowing and the traffic got heavier, we suspected we
had ventured too close to centro
(downtown) and were in danger of getting stuck or receiving a driving citation
from the police. Driving an RV into centro
in any town in México is generally unwise and usually illegal. The first time
this happened to us, we were in Patzcuaro. A taxi pulled up beside us and
honked his horn. Jon opened his window to see what the driver had to say. He
said he could lead us where we needed to go. The agreed on a price of 50 pesos
to get us to the RV Park. It was well worth the small fee to avoid the stress
of driving lost in a busy city.
That worked so well,
we used the same technique when we ventured too close to downtown San Miguel de
Allende. Thank goodness, we had hired a taxi driver to help us that time, too.
He not only led us to our RV Park, he helped us deal with an unsavory police
officer.
Hire a Mexican on a
Bicycle to Show Us the Way
Years ago, we decided to visit
Catemaco. We trusted the GPS to tell us what highway to take to get there. We
probably should have asked directions. When the two-lane road became a
washed-out dirt path with a shaky-looking temporary bridge crossing the river,
we knew we should have asked for help. But we crept slowly across the bridge in
our motorhome, breathed a sigh of relief when it held, and kept driving over
the washboard dirt road at about 15 miles per hour until we finally reached
Catemaco hours later. It was worth the long, rough drive to be able to watch the
annual El Brujo Festival that this
city is famous for.
When we were exploring Catemaco on
foot, trying to find a recommended restaurant, we had wandered for miles
looking for it without any luck. Normally, when we stroll around a new city
attempting to find a destination, we carry the GPS to give us directions. We
don’t have Smart Phones, so our GPS is our navigation system when on foot or
driving. But this time we didn’t have it with us. We didn’t really trust it
much at this point in our trip, after it had led us astray so badly.
So, we flagged down a young Mexican
riding by on his bicycle and asked if he knew where the restaurant was. He said
he did and that he could lead us there. He walked ahead of us, pushing his bike
the half-mile, until he pointed ahead at the sign, indicating that his job was
finished. Jon handed him ten pesos for his time and thanked him. As the young
man rode away, we felt good about financially helping a local Mexican, as well
as discovering an easy way to find our way around a new town.
In our travels throughout
México, we have learned that the Mexican people are more than willing to help
us find our way when we are lost. Their friendly, helpful, and trusting ways are a pleasure. We feel welcome and safe in México.
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Terry, again I enjoyed your blog. It is very interesting. LOVE< MOM
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mom. I'm glad you enjoyed it. We've had some crazy adventures, but always learn something.
DeleteTerry
Cute! Sounds like some grand adventures that all worked out in the end :-) Good tips for newbies too!
ReplyDeleteHi Tina Marie,
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading my blog and for your comment. I'm glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful.
Terry